You obviously did not read the PM I sent you. I told you I hit edit by mistake instead of trying to quote you on certain things so as to reply to them. I ended up messing your entire post up instead of posting a new reply so I deleted it and then PM'd you asking you to please repost.
Now onto your original post since you choose not to repost it. Opensource I guess you could reword that to opencoded as that is my meaning. You have the ability to see all the code and change things.
As far as you complaining about the topmenu function in pp-inc.php for the menubar. You replaced the names with image tags in pp-inc.php. I simply stated you could have edited the language file and replaced the names with image tags there. Would have made things much easier.
Now as far as moving the logout button you already know where the link to the login logout is in pp-inc.php
Now I can agree with you quite easily there could be some documentation on the templates. I think it might be nice to tell people what templates are called by which files etc.
Alot of your frustration and time could have been solved by simply asking a question about how do I do this?