1 after a user registars and click ok he is sent to my invision forum which is confusing how can i make it go to the photo post login page?
You cant do that without modifying your forum code. Registration is handled in the forum when you integrate with a forum and that concept follows their code rules.
2. also i am going thru the manual and cant fig out how to get it to confirm registration in other wordsi want user to be able to see everything but if he want to post he has to sign up and wait for email with link to verify email addr. click on that to login. and then he can start uploading pictures.
it sez in manul emailverify but i can seem to find that option or the part about birthdays, andd coppa.
If your using external registration you would need to post on invisionboard's site since this question concerns there registration process. In Photopost all your going to do is in Admin => Usergroups Options set the permissions how you want them for each of the usergroups.
3 i would like to be able to include a link to my main home page in the bar that sez home upload etc and also a way to link to the invision forum what would be the best way to do that besides doing it in the header?
You can edit the menubar.tmpl and add html links in there next to the $menu and $menu2 variables.
4 any doc on moblie intergration?
There is a modification in our photopost supported mods forum for mobile phone integration.
5 last question what size should the water mark be?
That would really depend on your tastes. Your max photos sizes etc. you might need to experiment a little. Thus try using on the fly watermarking first so you dont permanently watermark pics and see which one works best for your eye.