Ok.....here is what I'm doing and did.
I go to the admin of vbulletin and do this:
ACP>usergorups>unregistered/awaiting email confirmation> Can view forum NO
this will not allow you to read or view any post unless you register on vbulletin which mine is http://www.freakdaddyevents.com/forum/
and vbulletin is integrated with photopost.
But now that i've turned on this option photopost won't even allow you to log in as it gives you an error when you try and log in. The only way this will allow you in now is if you visit the vbulletin forum and log in there and click the gallery link there. You can go here http://www.freakdaddyevents.com/photopost/
and type in any user and password and you will see that the page takes you to an error page.
Why does this happen?