http://www.virginiaphotographer.net/
Your site looks fine to me there. As far as the style your not going to find vbulletin styles in our product as the site your referencing is one integrated with vbulletin where we load the header footer and style from vbulletin so essentially we do not use our styles or header. You can learn more about css and how to alter your stylesheets here
http://www.w3schools.com/css/