Look Chuck, I'm not blasting you, I'm making a suggestion and letting you know my and the original poster of this thread's frustration.
You've got a lot on your plate with over 25K posts and you've helped me with appreciation on several other issues.
I want my site to become a "Poster" site PhotoPost, and it WILL be, but I've got to resolve this integration issue, and my suggestion is a "step by step" instruction for all of us. Like you said Tons of threads on cookies and vb3 here"
Just some constructive criticism